I understand completely, there are many situations in which a man will say "no thanks.", one that has been exposed as women have become more open about their desires. The priapic nature of male sexuality has always been a myth.

I can't say I've ever actually said no, except those where cash payment was involved, but I have certainly pretended to be oblivious to certain overtures. Women take pride in their subtlty but word got back to me in several situations that my subtlety was not appreciated.

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Opted for comfortable retirement before I was fifty due to health problems and burn out. Now spend my time writing and goofing around. Home: northern England..

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